The way I would do it is back up your non-reloaded folder, install reloaded. Then when you need to upgrade to the new patch, simply put back your older non-reloaded folder, upgrade to the newer patch, then re-install reloaded.
mkanet
I am looking for your reloaded pack, and also your PowerDVD 8 skin, I have seen your screen shots over at avsforum
Thanks
Scat